opinions

[birds]

What if a twin flame/soul has already passed? What if you didn't meet them until after they'd passed?

I know someone that had a few near misses with mates (not intense), children (didn't happen), accomplishments (something always got in the way), and even death (a few times) but she's still here. She feels she met her soulmate, twin flame/soul recently but he's passed. Perhaps they're together on another spiritual plane. Maybe she had a reason to still be here or just didn't know to let go?

She feels she's had problems connecting with others still here because it wasn't meant to be with those. She also believes that maybe she was meant to die during her near death experiences but didn't; not suicide attempts. She didn't yet know him on Earth though as hers.

Ever since she has known him, he's already been passed, she feels drawn to him. He's given her signs and she feels like she's being pulled to him. She feels she was meant to go to him before but maybe had to wait for their discovery. Is he guiding her?

Did she need to learn of him to get ready for what's to come? Her journey to leave? Their journey together? Would they have found each other anyway? Has he been awaiting her arrival? Are they together somewhere else? Have they been together there?

[QT Pie]

All is always as it should be. She has not missed anything she was intended to have or experience. There are themes in her life and she needs to focus on the lessons to be learned in order to stop replaying the same themes over and over. Be truely careful investing to much of your life into a life not being lived here. Spirits are like people and well intentioned as they may be they inevitably distract and lead you faulse. They hold beliefs that are incorrect. They have personal agenda's. I am not trying to frighten just use the same sensible caution with them as you would if they were wearing flesh.

People believe ideas because they want them to be true or they are afraid they are true. But ultimately the truth is everything is unbelievably okay. She is exactly where she needs to be for her highest learning. And when she moves away, she only moves closer still. If that makes sense.

[birds]

She often say she feels she's only still been around the past few years to discover something and then learn a few more. She doesn't even feel like the same person, good and bad.

[QT Pie]

But that one something may very well take an entire lifetime. We are so focused on keeping control of our experience here that we are willing to take on so many painful and damaging ideas of what will be or what is intended for us that we would rather suffer in a small box of our pretending than to face the reality that nothing of the future can be known. Especially for someone that has brushed so much hardship it becomes vital to maintain control...even if it's by putting yourself in a mental prison of restrictive beliefs.

Encourage her to drop this weight of knowing so much and invite her to see life is beautiful when you allow creation to unfold before you without the restriction of certainty. Life WILL suprise her. That's what it does.