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Originally Posted by ShilohCyrus
so im questioning if that positive card is meaning a true yes to that negative event. i just wondering if a negative card would have better represented a negative event? would be thankful for additional insight or advice
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The confusion begins when you think there is some kind of 'objective' positive or negative. There isn't, positive and negative are relative to the client. The 'positive' card is agreement that an event they perceived as bad took place. What the client was most likely looking for was confirmation or proof.
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Originally Posted by ShilohCyrus
so im questioning if that positive card is meaning a true yes to that negative event. i just wondering if a negative card would have better represented a negative event?
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Try agreement or confirmation rather than positive/negative or yes/no. It can also help you and the reading to ask if confirmation is what the client wants because it 'clears the air'.