I have a son in Spirit that was aborted, and he often visits me and his sister. She was too young at the time to deal with the idea of abortion so her mother and I never actually said anything about a pregnancy, for obvious reasons. It wasn't until a few years later that my daughter asked if she'd ever had a brother that had been adopted because she was sure that she had one. It turned out that he'd been to see her and after a very emotional chat the two of them became friends. She still talks to him sometimes, and she's 33 years old now.