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Originally Posted by dena
I'm not sure if this the right place to put my question
I have a friend, she's actually my cousin .. she's nice and we have things in common to talk about when ever I see her
the thing is I always feel tired when I talk to her !! .. I notice that three years ago .. either small talk or long talk I always feel tired and exhausted .. I have never felt that with anyone before .. and nobody else feels the same as I do !!
it's like she takes my energy .. it's really weird because we just talk !! .. and i feel really tired after it and i need to lay down for hours sometimes
do you have an explanation for that?
I stopped talking to her right now .. it's sad because she thinks that there is something wrong with her :(
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Psy vamp.
Next time you are going to talk to her, consciously make an effort before hand to mentally check your own energy levels. Try to feel the fluctuations.
Does it go out fast, slow etc. How she talks to you.
When she leaves you, she feels great and that is why she always talks to you, because you uplift her.
Here is an easy technique, it is very simple to use.
While she is prattling on, breath in quite deeply but not audibly. As you breathe in fill your lungs with air, but feel the air displacing the energy that she is feeding off, then as you breathe out, imagine all the energy leaving your body and creating a vacuum. Don't be concerned where that energy goes it isn't important.
Make sure your breaths are long and even, not short and sharp.
I'm not going to tell you what you should feel, or how you should feel, what will happen. Because I don't want to set you up.
Let me know what happens, and if it isn't working we can modify it.