James like some others here your issue is that you have this ingrained issue about people projecting their stuff onto you...do you see?

And what happens is that often you end up being the one projecting the very thing you are against...in YOURSELF..

Just thought I would share that knowing, through my own expereince of this space..that I have walked through to know to share this...even though you may think I am projecting it at you as my experience...it is my expereince and the knowing byond the issue that I have walked through..lol!! oh boy that was a mouthful