Hi Katara,

I must say that you have interesting questions....

Questions are always a good indicator for your spiritual journey and it is a way of expanding your mind.

You have received very good and helpfull replies here.

I'd like to add one thing:

Your soul/spirit character remains overall the same throughout your lives.

However you can change the energy you might have with other souls.

Which is the blessing of our time. We are now able to examen our relationships we have with others and make changes accordingly.

For example:

In one of my past lifes I was married to a very mean and violent man.

He came back in this life as my older brother. (You can usually see it in the eyes when you encounter someone from a past life)

Of course he was just as violent to me as the husband from my past life.

I was now able through therapy a few years ago to resolve this issue with my brother.

He was asking sincerely ( and I really mean sincerely) for forgiveness. He did therapy on his part as well.

And I was able at that point to sincerely forgive him. (it was a process that stretched over 10 years I might add)

But it can be done.

Now the good news it that he will not reapear in my next life as this violent energy.

Yes you are able to make changes to yourself. You are evolving and have experiences in every life.

This is accumulating to this wonderful collection that is your spirit.

Hope this helped.

Peace and Prosperity