Yeah, I know what you mean in regards to opinions. I feel as though I used to be so good at trying to understand another person's perspective that I forgot that I could still have my own as well! It was probably, actually enmeshment for me, rather then true understanding haha.
If there are almost 8 billion people on this planet, then there are almost 8 billion different perspectives too!
"Nobody knows the trouble I've seen" haha.
That song has been stuck in my head lately! Really, nobody knows but me so far as my own perspective, I can explain it, I can share it and some people might resonate and understand, maybe even offer me some awareness of their own that I might be blind too and yet, I am still the only person who really KNOWS, you know?