Originally Posted by Mazulu

Hi Tara_joy,
Please forgive me if I came across as cranky.

I just want to see people, in this case Spectrum, find what will make them happy. I'm a big believer in the Pursuit of Happiness. Things like loving yourself and meditation are are terrible reasons to lock yourself up in an ivory tower and refrain from all sexual matters. This is the age of the internet where you can go to a dating website, create a profile, add a picture, and other people with similar interests will contact you for a date. It's literally that easy.