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Originally Posted by JosephineBloggs
So would obstacle other than trip up be a better word? Could you give me an example of a test? Doesn't have to be one you've been given.
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Opportunity for growth.
Hearing something that upsets you about the one you love. You're not sure if it's true or a test, but it upsets you. You have to choose your response to this. Do you react and push your loved one away? Or do you act with integrity and balance, while maintaining healthy boundaries? Once you get your response right to produce
growth in your partner, rather than distance, you will have passed the test.