Be happy and don't fear.

You can learn so much about life and possibly help those on the other side just by listening and asking questions. Be glad you have this gift.

Main thing to realize is that you have the power! Realize that you hold the keys, because you do. Nothing to fear! KNOW you can stop the contact at any time if need be.

It is pretty obvious to me that none of this has intended any type of harm. Many people are not perceptive to spirits and sometimes they just want someone to talk to, may very well be the case here.