On clearing , first talk to them , let them know there dead and its time to move on , to the light ,the astral garden , ect. You can fill your self with white light . You can do a smudging . I may create a post with smudging links , in the links sec of this forum . On white light I have a circulation of white light / middle pillar post , I will post the kink when I find it .
p.s. I created a smudging post in the links sec. of this forum and hear is a link to my post on the circulation of white light , its part of a golden dawn ritual and more info can be found on this in books and on the net .
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