about the monsters:
the thing to recognize is that you are in the position of power...
they come to you only with whatever power you have supplied to them.
as your creations, they are attracted to you, their source of being.
they reenact the behaviors you've shown to them... seeking to rip you
apart (as you've disowned them from yourself; ripped away and cast off).
you have the means to provide them with forgiveness and redemption.
this song speaks of monsters, and the video has men dressed in tutus;
it doesn't relate otherwise, but i like the song and figured i'd share:
Annie Lennox - No More "I Love You's"