Spirit are giving you a sign that they are near but you dismiss it, you are like a Doubting Thomas.
spirit will give you signs they are around you could have your hair itching as though you have something in it but you haven't.
you can feel a breeze you can smell perfume or aftershave. You can smell cigarettes .
they can also play with your lights make them flicker etc
spirit don't need you to take a gift to their graves
Namaste
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