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Originally Posted by CosmicWonder
I just read this again... only now realized I have to respond in order to try to help you. I can’t do it for you. But I can suggest it to you.
Kindness is a must have. Be gentle to yourself and others. Then, right then, process EVERYTHING that had happened. Survive with kindness. And strengthen by processing... this path was yours already. You have walked it. I know there is more to offer from my side, but God knows where and when it belongs.
Kindness,
Cosmic Wonder
Gentleness and much love to you my dear. Survive gently.
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Thank you.
Kindness has been my middle name, all of my life. However, being SO nice, I have allowed myself to be abused by multiple abusers. I believe in kindness, yes.... but now I am in a protective mode. I cannot be SO nice anymore. I've been far too open to too many toxic types of people, who then have trampled on me, used and abused me. No more.
So while I believe in acts of kindness and in kindness overall, I also believe in self protection. That's where I need to be right now. Self protective and with strong boundaries.
I need to be kind most of all to myself.
Hugs and blessings to you.