Answer to Red Embers
In my personal opinion, and I’m sorry that it sounds rather harsh, but if he hasn’t contacted you within a month, as you say, then he just isn’t into you.
As you said, you had a fair bit to drink and maybe your perception of your time with him may differ from how HE felt about the time with you. Even better ask a MAN friend and he will give you the honest truth.
See if you can pick up a dvd called “He’s just not that into you”. It would be helpful. Or buy a book called The complete book of rules by Ellen Fein. This book changed my dating life for the better, although many years ago, but still applies to the present.
I believe and experienced that if a man REALLY is interested in you then he will move mountains to find you. You won’t have long to wait either.
Sorry my darling if this makes you feel sad, but I don’t like to see beautiful souls like you, waste your time on someone who doesn’t contact you. You are worthy of so much more.
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