Just to get the discussion going, I found several links on a quick search of Judaism and the self. I'll post an excerpt on each. This is by no means exhaustive. And I'm certain there will be some overlap....
But just as a starter...
I'll add some excerpts from Frankl if it's not covered below...
1.
Forum I: On the Ethics of Self in Judaism: Searching for the Middle Ground Between Selflessness and Selfishness.
www.policyarchive.org/handle/10207/10735
2.
The Wicked Son: Anti-Semitism, Self-hatred, and the Jews (Jewish Encounters)
Mamet marshals his passion and mastery of language to argue that only religious observance is an authentic, non-
self-hating expression of
Judaism
http://www.amazon.com/Wicked-Son-Anti-Semitism-Self-hatred-Encounters/dp/0805242074
3. Judaism: God-Conscious Self-Esteem
Judaism: God-Consciousness is necessary for health self-esteem.
www.jewish-people-unite.com/judaism_self_esteem.html
4. Judaism - Human Nature and the Purpose of Existence
http://www.patheos.com/Library/Judaism/Beliefs/Human-Nature-and-the-Purpose-of-Existence.html