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Who are those people that you are not coping with. Is it relatives, family, friends or work? I think I can relate to you. My sister in law likes putting me down. She has been doing it for years. She has got nastier over the years. My husband knows it and other people. I got advice from a friend. She advised me to ignore it and say nothing. She is right. I could say something but it will not do any good. It will only make it more unpleasant. Perhaps I do not need to worry about it anymore as I found my extended family want nothing to do with us. We are not invited to any of their gatherings. One of my brothers I will keep in contact with. My husband said to me not to think about it. I do think about it but I have to try to make an effort not to think about it. Thinking about it only hurts you and no one else. There are lots of disappointments that can happen. We have to try to get on with our lives and not to get depressed.
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