asearcher, thanks for the sharing. Perhaps the most important thing for you to learn is why do you keep getting into such relationships. I highly recommend Schema Therapy. You can try DIY first, with it's self-help book: "Reinventing Your Life" by Jeffrey Young & Janet Klosko.
Note: If you have traumatic memories, reading this book may stir them up. If that happens, just put the book down and take a walk.
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