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Originally Posted by ameliorate
Psychology offers a way of understanding ourselves, e.g. our behaviour that may not occur to us by turning inwards.
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VERY true! I rem when I first read, ''Getting The Love You Want'', H. Hendricks*,
in the 90s---as homework in Couple Therapy....
by the first chapter my mouth dropped...I understood 'why'
we get with who we get with! Wow.
Of course, a was much younger then and very clueless about many things.
It wasn't til 1989 I got that my trauma-wounds came from my father, not my mother!
Thank you my many therapists friends that helped.
* Next best book to 'get' a whole panacea of family and relationship issues
is ''The Five Love Languages'', Chapman.
Talk about saving a relationship!!! And not divorcing!)