Originally Posted by cafedoc123
tl;dr--my wife has found her twin flame in another man, and I'm not sure how to understand that. Any thoughts and observations would be appreciated.
Twin flames are also twin souls with soul related agendas. We humans put everything into physical categories and tend to exclude our divine and/or spiritual aspirations.
Now if you can understand such a thing, then your wife's relationship with her twin can be seen as a very good friendship.
It is true that emotions will come into play however even those can be put into a more elevated perspective. Soul bonds are forever yet they are not exclusionary. Your soul bond with your wife is at the same spiritual level as with her twin. The souls in each of you know this. It would be nice if all involved also understood that.