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Originally Posted by spiritualmountain
Hi Friends,
Have an issue to discuss with you all.
I had a reading from a psychic regarding soulmate recently.
The reading started off well with positive readings which I enjoyed (like I am destined to meet a soulmate etc.).
But then, the reader started to mention some attributes (traits) of my future soulmate which I didn't really like.
There were some traits which I have already desired in my mind that my ideal soulmate will have.
But it felt saddening when the psychic reader mentioned traits which were not really to my liking.
All my whole life, I was always eager to meet my future soulmate, fantasizing about my soulmate. I am in my mid-thirties and never was in a love relationship before. So, you can guess how excited and eager I will be to meet my future soulmate.
But hearing what the psychic reader said, I kind of feel less interested to meet my soulmate already. Like I can really notice the drop in my interest. It literally felt like a needle has been used to burst a swelling balloon.
Are such things (like soulmate's traits) destined and can't be changed?
Or can I use techniques like manifestation to request for the desired traits in my future soulmate?
I reflected on myself. I felt maybe I am being greedy or ungrateful with what the universe is trying to gift me. I am not sure if I should just accept what the universe wants to give to me. I really feel bothered about this for the past few days. :(
Looking forward to your advices.
PS: I am still immature in my ways and learning to be more mature and wise in life. I am sorry if I mentioned anything that seems rude or insensitive.
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You need to quit trying to control everything. You really are immature for your age, like you say in your P.S. Just give up on meeting your "soul mate" and get out and have some fun, quit looking and quit trying to manifest something that may not even exist. Once you let go of trying to control every minute detail you will be able to relax and love will find you. As long as you obsess over details you block anyone even getting close to you.