ha ha, thats the problem i dont know
when i have talked to my friends about not having had any signs, they have said "Well he was very poorly, he will have had to had healing on the other side, abit like a hospital" and ive questioned them asking how do they know they need healing? i always assumed that when a soul leaves the body the soul is physically fit again and they leave all illnesses behind in their human body the shell..... sorry i hope im not sounding bonkers to you all.
feathers how lucky are you, im looking out for them, my daughter found hers and was very excited, i just think im looking too hard for everything and i need to learn patience