You haven't even met this "soulmate" yet. All you're "met" is a bit of disappointment in the psychic's description. That's understandable, but don't get stuck there. Life still beckons, so live your "now" instead of your future. The future can take care of itself. Besides, you can't cross that bridge until you get to it. Your feet aren't there yet, so find your feet and start walking.
And smile. You're alive. Smell the roses. Enjoy it!