Well i decided to just cut her off. She seemed all about it that night but then nothing after and a week later shes blabbing all over facebook about how shes never felt so happy and blah blah so i know she is seeing someone else and possibly was while we were hanging. In all honesty i think its a woman cause she swings both fences. It doesnt bother me much because i had already figured it wouldnt work from how she was. Thanks for all the advice though everyone. Im just focusing on myself right now. I have some personal things i have to deal with.