Thank you, Miss Hepburn, I get your points, I had originally thought of if I could imagine waiting in a waiting room and if this other person's higher self wanted to, to then open the door and let me in, or else I would not out of respect intrude. If it now would work, that is. Maybe a childish idea after all. The way I see it is that our higher selves are like generals and we down here are the soldiers, and then for me to do a "heads up" to the higher self or for the soldier to be more connected to it's higher self and/or the other way around, although i know some interpret it as if we are one, before things go further wrong. I suppose it was a very bad idea, LOL.. Out of respect of the other individual I can't get more into it than that.