thank you wearunity
it is only recently I became aware that a lot of the stuff I always thought necessary to progress, just isn't. So the idea that I don't have to know all the answers to this mystery is pretty new to me too...
but in my experience it is true, to the extent you can open up and love others, to that extent things you can be open to learn things that maybe wouldn't have been available to you before...
and meanwhile love for others is something desparately desired and needed by many people...