I generally don't bless others (e.g. wishing "happy birthday") because to conserve my spiritual energy. I don't curse either, of course. Jillity, i think the feats you're achieving must be costing you your spiritual energy, please be careful how you use it.
E.g. Someone said to his friend that the friend's father will get a job. Later a knowledgeable ghost told him to not to waste his spiritual energy like this. If you want to read this conversation you can starting from "Let me tell you" till end:
https://www.spiritualforums.com/vb/s...6&postcount=16