@Miss H... Thank you... And of course you are correct.
That is the approach I adopt and how I live.
I am the first to tell anyone we can all only ever live one day at a time...
And I know that whatever happens , is for reason, and meant

I suppose because it's all been happening at once, I'm a little fearful that something else is imminent , and even though I know , deep down , I will cope, I worry I think ,more for my loved ones and how they will cope...