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Originally Posted by lomax
I was the victim of others,and now i struggle to heal the traumas,because i choose to tolerate and digest things,trying to be the good guy who does no harm.
Now instead of forgiving anyone who wants to step all over me,i attack as hard as i can,and then use forgiveness on my self.
So,what do you think?
Am i lakcing forgiveness or not?
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You have every right to defend yourself and you don't need to ' Forgive ' yourself for doing so. You were not put on this earth to be be hurt and abused by anyone, the perpetrators should be asking/begging you for forgiveness.
You take care of yourself, your worth it
