Hi nuttynana,

I would say that firstly, you have to develop patience and acceptance when attempting to work with spirit. You have to learn to accept the frustration you may experience.

Also, if you do not already know, familiarise yourself with your chakras and chakra clearing exercises. Once you have done this, you will have more of a clear channel to have a two-way communication with spirit.

It is possible that who it is you think it could be, it very well could be or maybe not. Spirit may be asking you to take some things with faith.

One more thing - meditate regularly.

Hope this helps you, nuttynana.