The same boring concept.Your own self will block any kind of external assistance.Something like wanting you to experience it on your own.And even if you find some help,results will be temporarly.
No one can mess with time.If it's your time to suffer,nothing will stop it.It's like trying to stop the coming of a season.
If not and you're indeed cursed,your higher self will lead you to someone who can fix it.
Don't give up and protest to your higher self.(Unless you accept it).