[FairyCrystal]

Probably has been discussed before, I cannot recall though.

Books/sites give love matches per sign that should work.
Have you found throughout life that for you this is correct?

For me, Taurus, I believe the recommended good matches are Virgo, Capri, Cancer. Some also mention Pisces and fewer sites Leo.

For me not very helpful, except for the Leo. A fellow Taurus told me some 12 yrs ago that Taurus & Leo can be an absolute great match provided both have done sufficient personal growth. If not, they tend to butt heads.
That opened a new way of looking at things for me.

Looking back I can say that Virgo doesn't work, nor does Cancer. Never had a vibe with a Capri (they're great friends!), and Pisces... doesn't appeal so I doubt it'd be a great match.
I have been with a Leo though, and even though it didn't last, it was a great match in many areas that are important to me.

I've also wondered about Sag, have been with one when much younger. Then I couldn't handle their innate desire to wander off (not sexually or anything) and their free spirited-ness.
But I have grown a lot and also need much personal freedom. Yet I do think a Sag would be a bit too much, hihi.

I try to not dismiss someone based on sunsign, but it is so danged hard! Even someone's Chinese sign, as you can easily calculate that with their age. And Ox and certainly Rat don't go well with my Horse. And of course Ox & Rat are very close in years to Horse :/
Rat & Horse is the worst possible match in Chinese Astrology and I can't help but think of that when I see someone of that year on a dating site. And yes, I then am inclined to dismiss them.

I once heard a dating coach say she used to do the same thing, and then she completely let go of all that and pretty soon after that she met the man she married, and is still married with.
Her advice was to do the same. Yet, I find this so darned difficult to do!

So how is this for you?
And do -or would- you dismiss someone based on their sunsign as a potential partner?