Hello all.
I don't think I have the answer of the topic, but I may contribute with some examples from my life.
When my grandmother passed away, who was ill and surrounded with an evil person who made her last days hell, I didn't feel sad. I felt somehow "happy" (if that is the right word), I had a smile on my face because I knew she went to a better place, no more pain and suffering, like someone said above. I didn't cry at all!
When a young cousin, 13 yo, passed away (suddenly from fast cancer; before that he was a healthy kid), even though I wasn't even close with him, I cried loudly, and couldn't stop to cry.
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