I would also suggest counseling as the rest of the posters said. I would also add that we are all on our own paths with things to complete. Your paths crossed and you joined hands (while still on your own path) As you both walk a head on this earth school, the distance between you may continue to get longer and longer. Sometimes if don't grow spiritually together, the distance becomes to far and there isn't anything you can do about it, if you want to continue growing spiritually. Try to remember you have your own path and now you have a little one who is your priority. Best of luck and I hope you and your hubby can work this out and move forward together.