as a guy I find trying to figure out what females want very confusing. On the one hand we are told, everyone loves confidence and you have to project confidence to get a mate, then when we apply that we get told you don't want confidence after all, you want authenticity. But I also already know, if I choose authenticity, I'm going to be told (again) you want something else entirely.
all i can see is you basically want to say 'no' in any way that is available to you.
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