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Old 01-03-2022, 08:33 PM
asearcher
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there are so many people in this world, not only the type or the one in a period where you feel they go backwards. i think one of the classical mistake one can do when one has been treated badly by someone or several is to keep others at distance and not let them in. in that way the bad-ones has won, don't let them win. i understand suspicion, i understand one does not want to be let down again, but i think if you do change your own mindset other good things will follow. don't give up hope on the other people who has not done you anything bad.

i use to isolate myself far more before but i think it was because i was still fresh, new from the pain of having been treated badly, but then i just decided no, i'm not gonna do that no more :)
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