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Originally Posted by davidsun
Hello 'Queen' (that chosen 'title' says something about your this-life personality configuration, yes?) -
It strikes me that you may(?) be stuck because you choose to hold onto 'grief',
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Sorry but I have to disagree here. I would like nothing better than to simply let it go. But, just as a grieving period for a person in a perfectly emotionally healthy individual MUST be at least around a year, grief MUST be attended to. It is not a choice.
The only other options are repressing or ignoring it.
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Originally Posted by davidsun
then choose to themselves be and continue so) is the Love and Joy they were thereby soulfully introduced to, which Love and Joy is Life Itself!”
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Paradoxically, THIS is WHAT I am grieving. I HAD these things as a monk, at least six times, as I mentioned in OP.
I can still have them in much smaller measure in this lifetime, and I have to be satisfied with that.
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Originally Posted by davidsun
However humble you have to be to do so
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I can see how you think that Queen is Egoistic. However, it was a name
given to me, for one, for another it’s catchy and it rhymes, for another it helps anchor me to my current gender, and finally, I actively discourage people referring to themselves irl as ‘queen’, based on Buddhist principles, and I would NEVER think of doing so for myself. It is a placeholder. As well as a tool I use in some storytelling methods.
My Guides assure me, that despite my distaste for the term, it is supposed to be this way.