....I too am Hsp... And for many decades felt "misunderstood" or not "connected" to my family.... And in many ways, very alone. But then I came to realise that I cannot put it where it "isn't" LOL.... We are ( HSP) after all in a minority... And therefore cannot possibly hope that most of those around us "get us" or know how it feels to be us. But if they love us for who we "are" regardless, that's all we can hope for !!!