[Ziusudra]

This is an interesting subject.
Finding a potential life partner who can be one's equal and who can evoke a desire for intimacy is not an easy task, especially one is content with oneself and very comfortable with exploring life as solo.

Yeah. I am realizing why I am so selective. Unlike when I was dating just about anyone for good time in my younger days, the older me treasures my time and doesn't want to waste any of my time with guys who will never going to become anything in my life.

In my own experience and observations, if one is self assured and happy by oneself, it is far less likely to just attach to anyone without a significant connection.