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Originally Posted by Honza
My conclusion is that I am not selfish enough!
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Conclusion can be right depending on which selfish / Selfish u are talking about. The reason i am talking about there have been many selfish who having attracted the partner are not able to retain it due to same selfish stuff . The higher Selfish let u take care of your own self and other's self in a considerate way without being harsh to either side and at the same time nourishing long lasting relationship.
Relationships are material as well as spiritual . So the worldly things like looks , education , power , possessions ,prestige , position,self-confidence all counts . Try gaining / mastering even in one of these or more of these in a focused manner . These worldly matters if pursued in right manner with honesty is in no way bad. A legitimate relationship should not be far away.
Your own long practiced selflessness too will be very much helpful in attracting and retaining relationship for longer time . Just dont discard the much rare trait u possess recklessly.
I am no expert in relationships . My just 2 cents .