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Old 29-04-2018, 01:36 AM
Torgo Torgo is offline
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What's done is done, but that doesn't mean all is lost.

Dancing with another is a very intimate activity. In so few words, you told your wife that you are able to be more intimate with another woman than you are with her. I feel for her. It probably pains her that she can't have that type of connection with you as your wife.

However, if your wife truly loves you and knows that dancing is an important part of your life, she should examine her possible feelings of jealousy and inadequacy and try to make peace with the situation. Sitting down with you to discuss her insecurities about the situation might help her to make it less about her feeling left out, and thus make it more about her celebrating the happiness that you are experiencing.

Also, assuming that you still do love your wife and want to continue to be with her, maybe you could talk to her about all of the things that only you two do together that cause you to have an intimate bond as husband and wife? I would imagine this would reassure her more about your relationship and possibly help your bond to become stronger.
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