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What should I have done?
My wife had a number of back operations. She has to be careful with certain activities like lifting things.
I also have a good friend of the opposite sex who stayed with us for 2 months to teach us, me and my students, some better dancing skills. She is 18 years younger than my wife, 15 years younger than I, full of vigor and fun.
At some point my wife asks why I spend so much time with her and one of the answers I gave was "I can do things with her which I can't do with you".
My wife felt hurt about what I said and over a year later still bears a grudge about what I said.
What are your thoughts?
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