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Originally Posted by Izz
I don't have enough info about your family so can't really comment in detail
Thick skin should be about withstanding constructive criticism that can help one move forward or get solutions. Key words being constructive and solution oriented. Balance is key too
Just a general observation
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Like it doesn't mean that my family loves each other less. I don't think. Like we care about each other. But I could see a person taking offense to some things. Observing from outside the family culture. The reality is that there is a lot of criticism that isn't so constructive in our world. So in one sense it is solution oriented. That doesn't mean a person doesn't have boundaries or call's out a person for offending them. I mean it almost seems that everyone is offended by everything that doesn't fit nicely into there own belief system. The reality is people have different beliefs.