28-05-2021, 03:49 AM
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I did not think of the perspective that children see and learn from the parents how to have a marriage/relationship, how to fight,good of you who saw that, it made me realize some stuff myself. If nothing will be done about it the kids will bring that unhealthy ways into their own relationships and if allowed to exist there their children in return will see this and think o this is the way to communicate!  and on and on it goes...a way for it to thrive is that one feels loyalty and wish to protect the family unit and can be afraid to tell someone "on the outside" what is going on, that it is only the two in the marriage to sort this out themselves.
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