Originally Posted by SunMist
Hmmmm, just as an experiment try to be really assertive next time you talk with her and don't let her dominate the conversation and then see if you feel different. I've read that simply the act of giving someone your attention gives them energy and some people use that to get energy from others. Maybe through your attention you are giving away lots of energy to her? Another technique I've heard of is to just not give so much actual attention - in your mind focus on other things though if the other person senses this they'll think you are rude!
well I did talk to her today .. I came to her
the conversation didn't last for 5 minutes