[shadedragon]

you don't have to worry about being venomously opposed. at that point, you'll be able to find the logic within yourself to respond, else it is opportunity to learn something from the argument, and them from it as well. I do agree with you in some aspects, twin flames are not all they are said to be, and lead a many to heartbreak. yet the reason for heartbreak is because of one's refusal to love oneself unconditionally, or both's. because they are you and you them in full aspects, you can't avoid yourself anymore. they show us who we are and complete us by bringing that realization for us. they are beyond what they are defined as, but the definition gets so caught up externally that it becomes vague. the twin flames is you, and reflects right back at you what you send out, exactly as you would, because you and them are the same. that's what gives many their heartbreak- they don't want to be given what they give to others unless they have learned to come to terms with this.