Ok Nada, now I understand you better. So sorry for you, hun.
Well, he never got diagnosed Asperger. He only has tendencies. Like when he was a child, he would always go back exactly the same way he came (he has trained off this). He has difficulty keeping eye contact when speaking to a person. Such things. Maybe you can read out more from what he says, as you know the symptoms better.
But I hear you when you tell me and I will be cautious. Promise.
BTW, it wasn't him who brought up the word "chubby" - I myself said I look so horribly fat on that pic.
We have continued to chat after my last talk and it was a very close and intimate conversation. I somehow feel close to him now, can't explain. It makes me feel good. And I really think he likes me too, it did shine through quite a lot today. Although if it's just 30-50% of a normal person, as you say... well...
Hope I won't experience the same thing as you. And that you will be well and happy
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"Let Fate do with me what she will or can;
I am stronger than death and greater than my fate;
My love shall outlast the world, doom falls from me
helpless against my immortality."
From "Savitri" by Sri Aurobindo
(The Book of Fate)