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Personally whilst I respect others wanting to continue to pick up those who fall back into their old ways, I give 1-2 chances then I refer back to their own guides. Energy is best spent when they are ready to learn the lessons.. if they are not, thy have to wait for another chance; there are others that need help that can be helped.. this is what I have learnt.
I have found those who you have helped then expect it again and again, thats when you leave and let them fall to learn.. none of this is for gain or reward.. far from it.. it costs me financially, emotionally and time wise which I have come to accept whilst trying to balance my own life.
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