The confusion over the whole TF experience is simply that we attempt to conceptualize it to begin with.
I can experience the love, connection, acceptance etc and all is good and as it should be. But when I try to communicate such an esoteric relationship, it weighs in against everyone elses concepts and experiences.
We would be way better off casting off the shackles of thought and simply bypassing the need to judge the experience and just get on with it.
All the posing and posturing counts for nought. You are given a chance to love and so much more than that. You have the opportunity to make something worthwhile from your time on this silly piece of rock and what can happen is that the minds try to wrestle control ftom the heart by turning love into just another ****ing competition.