Thanks starlight, i shall have a look. Everything you wrote was really interesting, whether it came from you or through you i think it is equally as interesting and if you feel it is something to be shared then that can only be good.
My feeling is that any feedback is positive and can be learned from, even if it is hard to take or seems destructive. Nothing can destroy me unless i give it permission and fear or self doubt is the thing that creates a mindset in me that makes me give permission. We are all indistructable souls with no start or end, the illusion of beginnings and endings causes our doubts which hold us where we are but life is just a dream really, relax and love and it is nice, worry too much and fight against whatever comes your way and it becomes harder.